mckitterick:

oomileena-chanoo:

itsaarnie:

platonic-suggestion:

xenegg:

elementalsword:

critical-perspective:

juneleesrikok:

platonic-suggestion:

Can we just… normalize teens loving their parents? Like obviously you’re not obligated to if your parents are shitty, but damn, I love my mom. She’s there for me all the time and sure we have rough patches but honestly she’s the greatest. Like. We need teens to know that they don’t have to hate their parents just cause.

It must be nice to come from a nonabusive family. One that doesn’t traumatized every emotional interaction to the point where you drive away any sign of love as a form of manipulation because that’s all that you were raised with. 🤷‍♀️

It is.

Reading Comprehension  

but loving ur parents is already normalized and its the kids w/ abusive parents that actually have to deal with misunderstandings and ignorance from others regarding this topic.

Hey there, I’m talking about the trope where it’s seen as super uncool to like your parents that was literally pushed on teens through the media since the culture shift in the early 60s. The post has nothing to do with abusive parents. I was abused as a kid and honestly if the trope where teens have to hate their parents to be cool died, then kids with actual abusive parents would have an easier time recognizing abuse this has been a psa

“if the trope where teens have to hate their parents to be cool died, then kids with actual abusive parents would have an easier time recognizing abuse”

Teen with abusive parents: I hate my parents

Teen influenced by society: Me too mine are the worst

The takeaway for teen 1: This is normal and it’s supposed to be this way

The takeaway for teen 2: My friend’s parents are like mine

The takeaway for any adult listening: All kids who complain about their parents are just being rebellious

this is important

mckitterick:

oomileena-chanoo:

itsaarnie:

platonic-suggestion:

xenegg:

elementalsword:

critical-perspective:

juneleesrikok:

platonic-suggestion:

Can we just… normalize teens loving their parents? Like obviously you’re not obligated to if your parents are shitty, but damn, I love my mom. She’s there for me all the time and sure we have rough patches but honestly she’s the greatest. Like. We need teens to know that they don’t have to hate their parents just cause.

It must be nice to come from a nonabusive family. One that doesn’t traumatized every emotional interaction to the point where you drive away any sign of love as a form of manipulation because that’s all that you were raised with. 🤷‍♀️

It is.

Reading Comprehension  

but loving ur parents is already normalized and its the kids w/ abusive parents that actually have to deal with misunderstandings and ignorance from others regarding this topic.

Hey there, I’m talking about the trope where it’s seen as super uncool to like your parents that was literally pushed on teens through the media since the culture shift in the early 60s. The post has nothing to do with abusive parents. I was abused as a kid and honestly if the trope where teens have to hate their parents to be cool died, then kids with actual abusive parents would have an easier time recognizing abuse this has been a psa

“if the trope where teens have to hate their parents to be cool died, then kids with actual abusive parents would have an easier time recognizing abuse”

Teen with abusive parents: I hate my parents

Teen influenced by society: Me too mine are the worst

The takeaway for teen 1: This is normal and it’s supposed to be this way

The takeaway for teen 2: My friend’s parents are like mine

The takeaway for any adult listening: All kids who complain about their parents are just being rebellious

this is important

fermatas-theorem:

emphoenixcat:

writingmyselfintoanearlygrave:

Things to do as a famous writer;

  • Make a “fan blog” of ur book of Tumblr and stalk ur fandom from within.
  • Go to a book store, find ur books, sign a copy, then leave.
  • Write purposefully bad fan fiction of ur book and post it anonymously.
  • Buy a copy of ur own book and write commentary in the margins, then sell it online.
  • Cosplay ur own character to a con, don’t let anyone know it’s you.
  • Using your “fan blog” befriend another fan online. Ask them to video chat you, record their reaction.
  • Draw purposefully bad fan art and post it anonymously.
  • Read ALL of the fan fiction of ur book, then declare random ones you like as cannon in the comments.
  • Talk to aspiring writers online or at schools and encourage them.
  • Become a beta reader for one of ur fans.
  • Hold long in depth conversations with a fan who doesn’t recognize you, disagree with everything they say.
  • Ask to talk a picture with people who recognize you on the street before they have a chance to ask you first.
  • Anonymously commission artists to draw ur characters, then surprise them by posting it to ur “official blog.” Make sure you credit them so you draw more attention to their amazing artwork!!!
  • Tease ur fans about the next book coming out.
  • Tell ur fans a character is gonna die in the next book, but not say who. Watch them squirm.

Life goals

@neil-gaiman has done like half of these

fermatas-theorem:

emphoenixcat:

writingmyselfintoanearlygrave:

Things to do as a famous writer;

  • Make a “fan blog” of ur book of Tumblr and stalk ur fandom from within.
  • Go to a book store, find ur books, sign a copy, then leave.
  • Write purposefully bad fan fiction of ur book and post it anonymously.
  • Buy a copy of ur own book and write commentary in the margins, then sell it online.
  • Cosplay ur own character to a con, don’t let anyone know it’s you.
  • Using your “fan blog” befriend another fan online. Ask them to video chat you, record their reaction.
  • Draw purposefully bad fan art and post it anonymously.
  • Read ALL of the fan fiction of ur book, then declare random ones you like as cannon in the comments.
  • Talk to aspiring writers online or at schools and encourage them.
  • Become a beta reader for one of ur fans.
  • Hold long in depth conversations with a fan who doesn’t recognize you, disagree with everything they say.
  • Ask to talk a picture with people who recognize you on the street before they have a chance to ask you first.
  • Anonymously commission artists to draw ur characters, then surprise them by posting it to ur “official blog.” Make sure you credit them so you draw more attention to their amazing artwork!!!
  • Tease ur fans about the next book coming out.
  • Tell ur fans a character is gonna die in the next book, but not say who. Watch them squirm.

Life goals

@neil-gaiman has done like half of these

peachy-beauty:

poptarts4breakfast:

hammeredcat03:

fragilesadness:

journalingana:

xdeadly-thinx:

savwillbeskinny:

spp-hp-imagines:

sohotthateveryonedied:

ihatethatthisismyusername:

lilkittynellie:

lilxlovelyxprincess:

daddy-snuggle-me:

i-guess-im-okay:

gingerb3ard:

the1975-bastille:

azkabanescapee:

carbonated-milk:

hey if ur ever feelin shitty use this

Holy shit I’m trying not to cry.

i really needed this one tonight

omfg

Do it!!!

Please do it

!!!!

Thank you…

It actually made me smile

I can’t stop smiling this made me feel way better than it should have 

In case you guys need it 💖

🖤

Awe that’s so cute everyone should use this 💜

i’m crying in gym class and i don’t know how long it’s been since i’ve felt like this. use this, it’s the best 💘

Try it please 💕

I needed this right now

❤❤❤

i’m crying in the club (my room)

try it though I’m serious

peachy-beauty:

poptarts4breakfast:

hammeredcat03:

fragilesadness:

journalingana:

xdeadly-thinx:

savwillbeskinny:

spp-hp-imagines:

sohotthateveryonedied:

ihatethatthisismyusername:

lilkittynellie:

lilxlovelyxprincess:

daddy-snuggle-me:

i-guess-im-okay:

gingerb3ard:

the1975-bastille:

azkabanescapee:

carbonated-milk:

hey if ur ever feelin shitty use this

Holy shit I’m trying not to cry.

i really needed this one tonight

omfg

Do it!!!

Please do it

!!!!

Thank you…

It actually made me smile

I can’t stop smiling this made me feel way better than it should have 

In case you guys need it 💖

🖤

Awe that’s so cute everyone should use this 💜

i’m crying in gym class and i don’t know how long it’s been since i’ve felt like this. use this, it’s the best 💘

Try it please 💕

I needed this right now

❤❤❤

i’m crying in the club (my room)

try it though I’m serious