I noticed there’s still a little debate between the Dominator and Hater love arc, some think Dominator’s existence was hinged solely for being a love interest, and this just isn’t the case. Let me tell you why. As a girl myself, I see no problem with the past story arc, because it never belittled a woman in any way.
At the beginning of the series we had a glimpse of Dominator and how nasty she could be, nearly killed Wander and Hater right off the bat, and the gang escaped with their lives.
The next story arc we see Dominator revealed in front of everyone. We don’t see all the villains falling head over heels in love with her, no, all of them bowed down to her in respect. It was only Hater and Wander that acknowledged her existence of being a woman, and there’s nothing wrong with this, but we have to look into the intentions of both characters to see why they acted this way.
Hater as most all of us know, is really a softie at heart, shy, embarrassed easily, dorky teenager type. He has a soft spot for girls and doesn’t know how to act around them, so when Dominator, who he sees as so cool reveals herself, he is smitten. Not because she’s just a GIRL, but because she has qualities he admires, and he looks up to her as being a boss villainess. Dominator saw Hater’s reaction and pushed it, because she’s evil that way. She egged on Hater’s crush, not because she liked him, but because she saw what a huge dork he was and how easily this fight could end. From then on in the series we see her entertain his crush toward her, just so she can get something out of him. She’s not appalled that Hater likes her, she thinks it’s downright hilarious and entertaining that she can shoot at him and try to kill him and he keeps coming back like a needy puppy. She had him wrapped around her little finger and could do whatever she wanted with him.
As for Wander, his reasons for Dominator and Hater getting together again wasn’t because she was just a girl. If that was the case he could have tried pairing a ton of other girls with Hater. He chose Dominator in a desperate attempt for Hater to start caring about someone else for a change. Hater won’t be friends with anyone, so romantic love is the next possible way to reform Hater, because friendship goes hand in hand with love. Seeing Dominator having, what at first appeared to be the same likes and dislikes as Hater, Wander was just being a meddling matchmaker with good intentions. …and we all saw how well that turned out.
Hater was the only villain in the Galaxy who truly had a crush on Dominator, none of the others tried to woo her except Awesome but knowing that shark’s reputation, it was inevitable. That, and Awesome didn’t have the same innocent, genuine crush as Hater, Awesome was just looking for a girl to party with. His mistake.
Throughout the second arc we see Hater trying to impress Dom in ridiculous ways, because he has absolutely no idea how to be around girls and what they like. He just assumes pink and ponies is something girls like, which isn’t WRONG per say, it’s just that ALL girls don’t necessarily like those things. Hater being inexperienced, how would he know that? If he has next to no experience being with girls, how could he possibly know what girls like and don’t like besides what little knowledge he has? He wasn’t intentionally belittling Dominator, he was just so desperate to impress her, he did it the wrong way. Dominator never cared though, never once did we see her incredibly frustrated about Hater, she just took it all like a joke, especially in Showstopper where she paused her destruction just to listen and crack up. He was her cheap entertainment. If she really was bothered by him, she would have put a stop to his gags a long time ago.
It wasn’t till this most recent episode we saw Hater really TRY to be a gentleman, because in the back of his mind he KNEW he had to treat her the best way possible, because he thought she was so amazingly cool and out of his league, she deserved only the best. It’s in My Fair Hatey we see he genuinely loves someone, and cares about them, not in a superficial way or for his own selfish gain. He’s willing to do anything that would make Dominator happy, because she deserves the best and he considers her The Greatest. He doesn’t want to bring her down to his level, or lower her and use her like a pedestal, he sees her as an equal, even more than an equal. He treats her like the most precious thing in his whole life, which is how it should be. Of course it wasn’t a full, true love since love is a two way experience, but he was on the right track. Unfortunately for him, the time he finally understood how to love and care for someone, all his dreams were crushed. All his love stifled, as Dominator laughs in his face.
Dominator is tickled pink he would think of her that way, and in her cruel mind she doesn’t care the slightest bit. She crushes Hater’s love and laughs as she nearly drowns him in lava. Now that’s a real villainess. The crew didn’t once make her look weak or used her just as a love interest, she was far better than that. She was…as she puts it…The Bad Guy.